Series: Twisting the Scriptures — Post 12
Twisting Love to Approve of Sin
“Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.” — Romans 12:9
“Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.” — Proverbs 27:6
Love has become one of the most abused words in the Church.
In the name of love, sin is excused.
In the name of compassion, truth is silenced.
In the name of tolerance, holiness is mocked.
This is not biblical love. It is a counterfeit—a sentimental, self-serving redefinition that strips love of its backbone and turns the gospel into a hug without a call to repentance.
The Lie: “Love Means Never Offending”
This twisted version of love says:
- “Jesus welcomed everyone just as they were.”
- “You’re being judgmental.”
- “God loves you no matter what—and so do we.”
But Jesus also said:
“Go, and sin no more.” — John 8:11
“Except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.” — Luke 13:3
Biblical love does not wink at what cost Christ His life.
It speaks truth even when it wounds—because true love warns.
When Love Becomes Sentimentality
Paul wrote:
“Love rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth.” — 1 Corinthians 13:6
But today’s “love” rejoices in:
- Affirming everyone’s lifestyle
- Calling sin “brokenness”
- Saying nothing that might offend
- Using kindness as a cover for compromise
The end result? Churches filled with kindness—but void of conviction.
Love and Holiness Are Never at Odds
“As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten…” — Revelation 3:19
“He that spareth his rod hateth his son…” — Proverbs 13:24
The love of God is not soft. It is holy.
It disciplines.
It warns.
It corrects.
It calls out sin, not to shame—but to save.
If your definition of love never includes a cross, a call to repentance, or the holiness of God, then it is not the love of Christ.
Modern Bible Versions Weaken the Definition
- “Charity” (KJV) becomes simply “love”—but the word charity in English historically meant active, sacrificial, and holy love.
- Warnings and calls to repentance are softened or removed.
- Key phrases like “abhor that which is evil” (Romans 12:9) are translated into language so vague they lose all bite.
This diluted love aligns well with a culture allergic to truth—and a church unwilling to confront sin.
The Example of Jesus
“Then Jesus beholding him loved him, and said… One thing thou lackest…” — Mark 10:21
Jesus didn’t flinch from speaking the hard word—even to someone He loved.
He wasn’t rude. He wasn’t harsh. But He never compromised.
Love compelled Him to speak the truth.
Word for the Overcomer:
Do not fear offending people if it means obeying Christ. True love speaks plainly. True love warns. True love draws a line between good and evil. Let your love be holy, bold, and free from the fear of man.